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Floppit
18th January 2012, 08:33 AM
I signed up then never turned up! I guess that sort of looks like it's not my bag and that's why I'm posting because it isn't the case.
My (ex??) FIL died in October last year, can't help but feel the previous years events re my ex, his son, played some small part in that. My MIL got phlebitis (sp?) which led to tests which led to a cancer diagnosis early this year. She went in hospital for more tests last Monday - but getting back to her old self for a few months was expected, now, a week later it's a dash to get Munchkin to see her as she's no longer expected to return home, from what I gather from scant info, not really expected to see the month out.
All the time I was at Ratz, since Feb 2009 when something most know about, massive, happened, one domino has been hitting the next. I remember saying to my GP over a year ago 'give me 6 months without one thing colliding into the next and I won't doubt it's over for a second'. No such break shows any sign of happening and it is becoming a way of life, one easier to acclimatise to than expect to change.
So - yeah, I've been squashing work into every crack to buy time to get Munch to her grandma, we expect to head up north on Thurs, return saturday - if she's still alive.
I'm so used to this now that I can't say I feel much stress, I'm sad about it but focused on doing what I can rather than raging against anything I can't.
Bottom line is work and home is changing and I haven't the foggiest how much any forum will be part of life in the coming year BUT as a lot of effort went into mindromp and as I like it muchly I do want all concerned to know that my lack of presence means absolutely zilch about how much I like it.
My (ex??) FIL died in October last year, can't help but feel the previous years events re my ex, his son, played some small part in that. My MIL got phlebitis (sp?) which led to tests which led to a cancer diagnosis early this year. She went in hospital for more tests last Monday - but getting back to her old self for a few months was expected, now, a week later it's a dash to get Munchkin to see her as she's no longer expected to return home, from what I gather from scant info, not really expected to see the month out.
All the time I was at Ratz, since Feb 2009 when something most know about, massive, happened, one domino has been hitting the next. I remember saying to my GP over a year ago 'give me 6 months without one thing colliding into the next and I won't doubt it's over for a second'. No such break shows any sign of happening and it is becoming a way of life, one easier to acclimatise to than expect to change.
So - yeah, I've been squashing work into every crack to buy time to get Munch to her grandma, we expect to head up north on Thurs, return saturday - if she's still alive.
I'm so used to this now that I can't say I feel much stress, I'm sad about it but focused on doing what I can rather than raging against anything I can't.
Bottom line is work and home is changing and I haven't the foggiest how much any forum will be part of life in the coming year BUT as a lot of effort went into mindromp and as I like it muchly I do want all concerned to know that my lack of presence means absolutely zilch about how much I like it.
oblivion
18th January 2012, 08:59 AM
wow, Floppit...it sounds like a brutal week on top of a horrible year. Please try to take care of yourself, too.
charlou
18th January 2012, 09:22 AM
I signed up then never turned up! I guess that sort of looks like it's not my bag and that's why I'm posting because it isn't the case.
My (ex??) FIL died in October last year, can't help but feel the previous years events re my ex, his son, played some small part in that. My MIL got phlebitis (sp?) which led to tests which led to a cancer diagnosis early this year. She went in hospital for more tests last Monday - but getting back to her old self for a few months was expected, now, a week later it's a dash to get Munchkin to see her as she's no longer expected to return home, from what I gather from scant info, not really expected to see the month out.
All the time I was at Ratz, since Feb 2009 when something most know about, massive, happened, one domino has been hitting the next. I remember saying to my GP over a year ago 'give me 6 months without one thing colliding into the next and I won't doubt it's over for a second'. No such break shows any sign of happening and it is becoming a way of life, one easier to acclimatise to than expect to change.
So - yeah, I've been squashing work into every crack to buy time to get Munch to her grandma, we expect to head up north on Thurs, return saturday - if she's still alive.
I'm so used to this now that I can't say I feel much stress, I'm sad about it but focused on doing what I can rather than raging against anything I can't.
Bottom line is work and home is changing and I haven't the foggiest how much any forum will be part of life in the coming year BUT as a lot of effort went into mindromp and as I like it muchly I do want all concerned to know that my lack of presence means absolutely zilch about how much I like it.
:[ Floppit, times like this I regret being so far away from you more than usual. Much concern and love to you, dear lady x http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/charlou/hug.gif
My (ex??) FIL died in October last year, can't help but feel the previous years events re my ex, his son, played some small part in that. My MIL got phlebitis (sp?) which led to tests which led to a cancer diagnosis early this year. She went in hospital for more tests last Monday - but getting back to her old self for a few months was expected, now, a week later it's a dash to get Munchkin to see her as she's no longer expected to return home, from what I gather from scant info, not really expected to see the month out.
All the time I was at Ratz, since Feb 2009 when something most know about, massive, happened, one domino has been hitting the next. I remember saying to my GP over a year ago 'give me 6 months without one thing colliding into the next and I won't doubt it's over for a second'. No such break shows any sign of happening and it is becoming a way of life, one easier to acclimatise to than expect to change.
So - yeah, I've been squashing work into every crack to buy time to get Munch to her grandma, we expect to head up north on Thurs, return saturday - if she's still alive.
I'm so used to this now that I can't say I feel much stress, I'm sad about it but focused on doing what I can rather than raging against anything I can't.
Bottom line is work and home is changing and I haven't the foggiest how much any forum will be part of life in the coming year BUT as a lot of effort went into mindromp and as I like it muchly I do want all concerned to know that my lack of presence means absolutely zilch about how much I like it.
:[ Floppit, times like this I regret being so far away from you more than usual. Much concern and love to you, dear lady x http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y171/charlou/hug.gif
Floppit
18th January 2012, 10:53 AM
I've just had a phone call and it looks like we won't be going although I've asked David to speak to the hospital and ask if there's any chance - if so we'll leg it.
Feck
18th January 2012, 11:06 AM
Sorry to hear you have more troubles Floppit :hug:
nostrum
18th January 2012, 11:50 AM
:hug:
divagreen
18th January 2012, 01:18 PM
:hug:
Supernaut
18th January 2012, 09:30 PM
(((Floppit)))
Mantisdreamz
18th January 2012, 09:38 PM
I'm so used to this now that I can't say I feel much stress, I'm sad about it but focused on doing what I can rather than raging against anything I can't.
I think it's okay to not rage over what you can't change. Just being there for your family is all you can do.... ((hugs))
I think it's okay to not rage over what you can't change. Just being there for your family is all you can do.... ((hugs))
Gawdzilla
18th January 2012, 09:45 PM
:hug:
Floppit
24th January 2012, 05:45 AM
All dead and dusted. My MIL died on Thurs, after we got there the only thing she said to anyone was 'hello sweetie' to Munch so hoofin' it was worth it. The funeral's on the 3rd.
I've been juggling work and childcare since I got back but woke up uber early this am so thought I'd pop by for a browse. :)
I've been juggling work and childcare since I got back but woke up uber early this am so thought I'd pop by for a browse. :)
charlou
24th January 2012, 05:53 AM
Glad you made it to her in time, and good to see you again, floppit.
Life will be getting busier again for me too, with the summer holidays coming to an end. It's been a good break .. really good, actually .. but looking forward to more activity and maybe some new things. :)
Life will be getting busier again for me too, with the summer holidays coming to an end. It's been a good break .. really good, actually .. but looking forward to more activity and maybe some new things. :)
Floppit
24th January 2012, 06:08 AM
Glad you made it to her in time, and good to see you again, floppit.
Life will be getting busier again for me too, with the summer holidays coming to an end. It's been a good break .. really good, actually .. but looking forward to more activity and maybe some new things. :)
It's posts like that which remind me you're upside down! It's f'ing freezin' in this computer room!
New things??
Life will be getting busier again for me too, with the summer holidays coming to an end. It's been a good break .. really good, actually .. but looking forward to more activity and maybe some new things. :)
It's posts like that which remind me you're upside down! It's f'ing freezin' in this computer room!
New things??
Exi5tentialist
24th January 2012, 08:25 AM
It's posts like that which remind me you're upside down! It's f'ing freezin' in this computer room!
New things??
Floppit, I think you will find that Elouise sees my avatar the right way up. Anything we can do to make things easier for them down there should be encouraged.
New things??
Floppit, I think you will find that Elouise sees my avatar the right way up. Anything we can do to make things easier for them down there should be encouraged.
Cunt
24th January 2012, 11:09 PM
Bottom line is work and home is changing and I haven't the foggiest how much any forum will be part of life in the coming year BUT as a lot of effort went into mindromp and as I like it muchly I do want all concerned to know that my lack of presence means absolutely zilch about how much I like it.
I don't know what a 'FIL' is, or what some of this meant, but if I could help you, I would consider it effort well spent. I will certainly welcome you whenever you have time to visit.
Be well :)
I don't know what a 'FIL' is, or what some of this meant, but if I could help you, I would consider it effort well spent. I will certainly welcome you whenever you have time to visit.
Be well :)
divagreen
24th January 2012, 11:18 PM
*posts in Cunt's invisible but public comment section that FIL and MIL mean father in law and mother in law*
:)
:)
Cunt
25th January 2012, 12:53 AM
Oops. Thanks, divagreen.
charlou
25th January 2012, 05:58 AM
It's posts like that which remind me you're upside down! It's f'ing freezin' in this computer room!
New things??
Floppit, I think you will find that Elouise sees my avatar the right way up. Anything we can do to make things easier for them down there should be encouraged.
I choose to ignore your contrariness and consider this a euphemism for wanting to shag me too. :)
New things??
Floppit, I think you will find that Elouise sees my avatar the right way up. Anything we can do to make things easier for them down there should be encouraged.
I choose to ignore your contrariness and consider this a euphemism for wanting to shag me too. :)
Exi5tentialist
25th January 2012, 09:08 AM
I choose to ignore your contrariness and consider this a euphemism for wanting to shag me too. :)
But I am an invert, so how's that supposed to work?
But I am an invert, so how's that supposed to work?
charlou
26th January 2012, 03:53 AM
No penis? :sadcheer:
I suppose I can convert to vegetarianality too ... cucumbers are in season atm.
I suppose I can convert to vegetarianality too ... cucumbers are in season atm.
divagreen
26th January 2012, 03:55 AM
:stare:
:hehe:
:thumbsup:
:hehe:
:thumbsup:
charlou
26th January 2012, 04:00 AM
I know, right .. hopeless romantic. :o
Hermit
26th January 2012, 04:11 AM
Seraph visits a witch: "Can you turn me into a cucumber?"
Cunt
26th January 2012, 04:24 AM
...vegetesbians...
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